Time

Being a father means giving up your time without resentment. It's hard, I know. Men spend most of their time working for someone else. When you come home and there are even more demands on your time, you might feel like distancing yourself from your own family.

Your daughter realizes this, and becasue she wants to please you, she might not tell you how much she needs your time. So you have to take the initiative to spend time alone with her.

I realize that many good fathers feel pressured regarding time. There isn't enough, for any of us, and the lack of time or misuse of it causes great anxiety. We carve out time slots for our kids, and we don't want to waste that time. We want to ensure that it's productive and meaningful. And that only adds to pressure.

But spending time with your daughter shouldn't be full of pressure, because she doesn't need you to do something; she only needs to be with you. So don't worry about finding activities to entertain her. She doesn't want to hitch a ride on your golf cart. (And she certainly doesn't want to share you with the television.) All she wants is your attention. And she need it on a regular basis.